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The Thrill of Erotic Humiliation from a Domme’s Perspective
Posted On: October 15, 2009 at 1:48 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
I thought I’d write about the thrill of erotic humiliation from a domme’s perspective. Most people who read this blog are submissives, so they may wonder what it’s like for a dominant to put her/his sub through erotic humiliation.
For me, it’s a giggle – sometimes a HUGE giggle, followed by wild guffaws. I mean, really, just think about it! When you’re able to convince, seduce, “make,” (or whatever word you’d like to use) a person do something erotically humiliating to them, the look on their faces and what they’re actually doing can literally be rolling on the floor laughing your ass off funny! And who doesn’t want a good laugh, especially nowadays!
Mixed in with the opportunity of having a great laugh is the control issue for me. The rush of control I have over subs as I put them through erotic humiliation is quite heady. It’s one thing to have a sub undergo some sort of physical pain (as in corporal punishment) or emotional hardship (as in orgasm denial). But with erotic humiliation, the humiliation slut goes through huge embarassment, and it has more of a lasting effect. They know that they’re literally being an amusement for their dominants, and not in a stand-up comic, on purpose, kind of way. Oftentimes, a painslut’s reactions are just as funny as the erotically humiliating act or acts they have to perform.
As I said, erotic humiliation is much more memorable than physical pain or hardship. Think back to, for instance, hitting your finger with a hammer. Can you really recreate that pain? Not likely. With physical hardship, it might be a little easier to remember – like recalling how frustrated you were during a period of intense orgasm denial for your dominant. However, you probably can’t recreate the immediate physical sensations in your balls and cock right this minute, can you? (Unless you’re cheating, and you’re doing another intense orgasm denial – lol)!
But with erotic humiliation – or with any kind of embarassing moments in your past – you can immediately recall how humiliated you felt. In fact, your face might even blush a bit at the thought, and you might figet nervously, as all those uncomfortable feelings come rushing back.
Erotic humiliation is intense and leaves an indelible imprint on a sub’s psyche. And that’s why it’s a total rush of control for a dominant, and also a laugh riot!
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