Orgasm Denial, Part 3

Posted On: October 6, 2009 at 6:19 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)

As I alluded to in the previous post, the bravery exhibited by those into orgasm denial can be every bit as impressive as a pain slut’s.  In fact, in most cases, the amount of bravery and self control is far more for an orgasm denied fan.  That’s because, for a painslut, the bulk of the pain ends when the session ends.  This isn’t the case for the tease and denial submissive.

Going through orgasm denial entails mental, emotional, and physical pain and/or discomfort.  For those not having experienced orgasm denial, the physical discomfort is obvious, and blue balls are something they disdain and try to avoid at all costs.  For the tease and denial fan, being denied – while uncomfortable – is erotic, so the “pain” is manageable.  The emotional and mental pain is what builds up over hours or days, and that’s when a Domme needs to be around to help her sub through the anguish.

The subs whom I’ve denied for at least a few days frequently get very emotional.  Some experience anguish, extreme frustration and stress, and desperation.  Going through such mental and emotional sensations are harder than a painslut’s physical sensations because it’s only skin deep.  (Unless, of course, the sub is being punished for some transaction.  Then again, I don’t believe that a Dominant should EVER punish a sub when s/he is angry).

At any rate, those who are in to orgasm denial are often far braver than those who are in to heavy corporal punishment.  My hat is off to those tease and denial fans who push themselves past their limits every time they’re going through a denial phase.

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