Orgasm Denial, Part 2

Posted On: September 30, 2009 at 3:45 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)

When introducing orgasm denial to your novice Domme, you need to impress upon her how much happiness you get from being denied.  That will help her overcome her upbringing and socialization that a man only achieves satisfaction if he cums.  Be very up front with her in how much pleasure you get from the ache of denial.

Every time you have an orgasm denial play time with her, give her positive affirmations when she does what is “Domme-like.”  Accentuate her positives.  Remember that this is all foreign to her, so don’t be too nitpicky and overbearing.  It’s not exacty ideal to “lord” it over her on how to do things when she’s the one who is supposed to be in control – lol!

Tell her why you like orgasm denial.  Many men say things such as loving the chase and the courtship phase of a relationship.  Certainly being denied their orgasm is part of that.  Proving themselves and how much self control they have is another part of orgasm denial.  Placing themselves under the control of the woman they love is another.  Whatever the reason you’re into orgasm denial, let your novice Domme know

Communication is always the key.  Just because orgasm denial may seem more benign than other bdsm activities, it’s not.  The bravery that an orgasm denied fan must endure is every bit as impressive as a painslut’s.

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