Posted On: September 28, 2009 at 3:45 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
For many men who want to introduce their significant others to the FemDomme lifestyle, a good place to start is orgasm denial. That’s because many women get immediately turned off at the thought of BDSM; they conjur up images of whips and chains. While that may be the case for some activities for D/s couples and playmates, it doesn’t have to be the norm.
At any rate, I feel orgasm denial is something to introduce to a novice Domme in the making. Unfortunately, many a woman feels that she’s not satisfying her mate if he doesn’t cum, so it might take awhile for her to realize that she really should deny him. After all, that’s what orgasm denial is all about – lol!
I remember the first time I did orgasm denial. It was during orgasm denial phone sex, and after doing a lot of cockteasing, the man was begging me for permission to release. He sounded so sincere, and he really sounded like he was about ready to cry. So I gave in. Wrong move! The disappointment in his voice was quite evident. He did cum, but boy, was he ever disappointed. He never called again. Gee…I wonder why – lol!
True, orgasm denial play doesn’t mean never cumming, but for many orgasm denied fans who want to have a play session, they don’t want to cum during that time. Eventually, but not then. At that particular time, they want the cock teasing and the slow build up in their balls. They want that familiar blue balled, heavy ache of being orgasm denied.