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The Thrill of Erotic Humiliation from a Domme’s Perspective
Posted On: October 15, 2009 at 1:48 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
I thought I’d write about the thrill of erotic humiliation from a domme’s perspective. Most people who read this blog are submissives, so they may wonder what it’s like for a dominant to put her/his sub through erotic humiliation.
For me, it’s a giggle – sometimes a HUGE giggle, followed by wild guffaws. I mean, really, just think about it! When you’re able to convince, seduce, “make,” (or whatever word you’d like to use) a person do something erotically humiliating to them, the look on their faces and what they’re actually doing can literally be rolling on the floor laughing your ass off funny! And who doesn’t want a good laugh, especially nowadays!
Mixed in with the opportunity of having a great laugh is the control issue for me. The rush of control I have over subs as I put them through erotic humiliation is quite heady. It’s one thing to have a sub undergo some sort of physical pain (as in corporal punishment) or emotional hardship (as in orgasm denial). But with erotic humiliation, the humiliation slut goes through huge embarassment, and it has more of a lasting effect. They know that they’re literally being an amusement for their dominants, and not in a stand-up comic, on purpose, kind of way. Oftentimes, a painslut’s reactions are just as funny as the erotically humiliating act or acts they have to perform.
As I said, erotic humiliation is much more memorable than physical pain or hardship. Think back to, for instance, hitting your finger with a hammer. Can you really recreate that pain? Not likely. With physical hardship, it might be a little easier to remember – like recalling how frustrated you were during a period of intense orgasm denial for your dominant. However, you probably can’t recreate the immediate physical sensations in your balls and cock right this minute, can you? (Unless you’re cheating, and you’re doing another intense orgasm denial – lol)!
But with erotic humiliation – or with any kind of embarassing moments in your past – you can immediately recall how humiliated you felt. In fact, your face might even blush a bit at the thought, and you might figet nervously, as all those uncomfortable feelings come rushing back.
Erotic humiliation is intense and leaves an indelible imprint on a sub’s psyche. And that’s why it’s a total rush of control for a dominant, and also a laugh riot!
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Orgasm Denial, Part 3
Posted On: October 6, 2009 at 6:19 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
As I alluded to in the previous post, the bravery exhibited by those into orgasm denial can be every bit as impressive as a pain slut’s. In fact, in most cases, the amount of bravery and self control is far more for an orgasm denied fan. That’s because, for a painslut, the bulk of the pain ends when the session ends. This isn’t the case for the tease and denial submissive.
Going through orgasm denial entails mental, emotional, and physical pain and/or discomfort. For those not having experienced orgasm denial, the physical discomfort is obvious, and blue balls are something they disdain and try to avoid at all costs. For the tease and denial fan, being denied – while uncomfortable – is erotic, so the “pain” is manageable. The emotional and mental pain is what builds up over hours or days, and that’s when a Domme needs to be around to help her sub through the anguish.
The subs whom I’ve denied for at least a few days frequently get very emotional. Some experience anguish, extreme frustration and stress, and desperation. Going through such mental and emotional sensations are harder than a painslut’s physical sensations because it’s only skin deep. (Unless, of course, the sub is being punished for some transaction. Then again, I don’t believe that a Dominant should EVER punish a sub when s/he is angry).
At any rate, those who are in to orgasm denial are often far braver than those who are in to heavy corporal punishment. My hat is off to those tease and denial fans who push themselves past their limits every time they’re going through a denial phase.
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Gag on Me: Forced Cocksucking
Posted On: September 4, 2009 at 3:40 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
I feel so powerful when I tell my submissive: “Gag on me!” He is kneeling before me and my big strapon cock. Nothing puts a submissive in his or her place faster than forced cocksucking! You can see it in a submissive’s eyes – the pleading, the humiliation, the vulnerability, and slowly…the lust.
Forced cocksucking. If you haven’t done it to a submissive, I encourage you to try it. It’s fun! If you’re a submissive…keep on sucking!
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The First Time I Read About Bondage
Posted On: August 18, 2009 at 6:05 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
The first time I read about bondage or anything bondage related was in high school. I read a book called “Punish Me with Kisses.” It was so bizarre but fun and very naughty to read. I didn’t in any way relate with the submissive in the book, but I sure was curious about the dominant.
Even though I was very shy in high school (I was a late bloomer) I was not the least bit ashamed of anyone seeing me reading a bondage book. In fact, we didn’t have lockers at that high school, and all our books were placed on desks. I proudly put my bondage book on the top of my book stack – lol! I should’ve known I would have a future filled with bondage, huh?
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Latina Tied and Fucked
Posted On: March 20, 2008 at 9:37 am By: admin Comments: (zero)
Sexy Latina Cassandra gets tied up, gagged and fucked. Watch her first hang from the ceiling while Steven pushes his cock all the way to the back of her throat. Later he gags her, ties her to the bed, and gives her a good pounding.
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