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Of Straight Jackets and Bondage
Posted On: November 14, 2009 at 6:21 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
One of my favorite items to use in bondage is a straight jacket. There’s something so sexy about seeing a manly man all bound up in a straight jacket, especially if he’s not wearing anything else – lol!
My latest bondage playmate also has a latex fetish, and he had a latex straight jacket. Ooh la la! It made my mouth drool looking at it, and it made my pussy drool seeing him in it. I also put on my hot short latex black dress and stockings. He was fit to be tied!!
I had my latex fetish boy lick my pussy until I had several orgasms, then I teased him some more. After a couple hours of orgasm denial, I finally let him cum – all over my latex stockings. Of course, he had to lick it off – all the while he was in his straight jacket bondage. It was very funny how awkward he looked trying to get down on his knees and clean his spunk off my black latex stockings. That made him hard again, and I teased and teased him…but no second cumming for him!
Posted In: Bondage, Femdom, Latex Fetish
Erotic Humiliation with some Buzzzzz
Posted On: November 8, 2009 at 7:50 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
Sometimes I enjoy some buzzing with my erotic humiliation of humiliation sluts. True, the device I’m talking about also includes pain, but that’s also fun for me! You see, there’s this delightful little remote control device wherein I can give a mild to OUCHIE electric shock to a painslut through a special cock ring he’s wearing.
What brings erotic humiliation into the mix is when I require my subs to wear this device out in public. You see, I like to press that remote quite frequently, but I do it at the mild level…for awhile…just enough to lull them into thinking it’ll only be mild shocks they’ll receive from me. Then SHAZAM! I press the button for the high level of shock, and those very surprised and hurt yelps are priceless.
They’re so funny, especially when they can’t help themselves and they yelp very loudly, without thinking about all the people who might be around to hear them. Hahaha! I have so much fun seeing my subs trying to pretend something happened that made them yelp that would be acceptable to the vanilla public, like rubbing their arm as if they got hurt, sucking their finger, etc. I just laugh, and they just blush from the erotic humiliation and the pain in their electrically charged balls. LOL!
Erotic Humiliation in Person
Posted On: October 29, 2009 at 6:30 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
My previous entry discussed erotic humiliation phone sex, which is a helluva lot of fun. But erotic humiliation in person is just as fun, perhaps even more so, with the right humiliation slut. Some of the erotic humiliation things I’ve done to subs include: human pet play, piss play, cumming in humiliating ways, and getting dirty.
One of the funniest things I’ve ever done – and it was in public and no one else knew except the humiliation slut and me – involved piss play. The thing is, I had my period at the time as well – lol! I threw a dinner party at my home, with most of the guests being vanilla people, so if I was going to do any erotic humiliation, I’d have to be discreet. Well, my sub did something that ticked me off, so I went into the bathroom, pissed into a glass goblet, and gave it to him. It was, of course, an unusual mixture of yellow and burgundy. I’m sure some people, if they noticed, may have wondered what kind of “wine” I was serving. Thank goodness no one asked for a sample – haha!
At any rate, I whispered into my erotic humiliation slut’s ear what it was. Since he was in front of people, he couldn’t protest. So down the hatch it went. LOL! He visibly blanched, and I secretly laughed. It was a hoot!
Posted In: Femdom, Humiliation
Erotic Humiliation Phone Sex
Posted On: October 23, 2009 at 12:31 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
I’ve done a lot of fun and funny things to humiliation sluts who’ve called me for erotic humiliation phone sex. Some have taken their cell phones with them while talking to me on the phone. Oftentimes, these little excursions take the shape of them going into a lingerie store and purchasing something for themselves. Of course, they’re to tell the saleswoman that the panties, bra, stockings, etc., are for them. There have been times that I’ve talked to the saleswomen and have told them that the lingerie purchase is for the man standing in front of them – lol! Other times, I’ve had my callers purchase two of each item they want – one in my size and one in theirs. Obviously, the saleswoman would know the larger size was for the man – lolol!
Other times I’ve had erotic humiliation phone sex callers go to the makeup counter at a drug store or a department store. As in the lingerie store experience, I’ve talked to the clerks and told them to help the caller pick out some makeup for him to wear. Most of the clerks have been good sports, though you can sometimes tell from their tone of voice that they’re very disapproving of the sissy boy in front of them – lol!
I’ve had a few callers whom I’ve made ask a sales clerk where the tampons are and what tampons they recommend for someone who has never used them before. One caller was even so bold as to tell the clerk the tampons were for him. I giggled cuz I thought no way would the guy say that, but he did!!!! ROFLMAOOOOOOOO! Too frigging funny!
See, erotic humiliation is so much fun!!!!!!
Posted In: Femdom, Humiliation
Orgasm Denial, Part 2
Posted On: September 30, 2009 at 3:45 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
When introducing orgasm denial to your novice Domme, you need to impress upon her how much happiness you get from being denied. That will help her overcome her upbringing and socialization that a man only achieves satisfaction if he cums. Be very up front with her in how much pleasure you get from the ache of denial.
Every time you have an orgasm denial play time with her, give her positive affirmations when she does what is “Domme-like.” Accentuate her positives. Remember that this is all foreign to her, so don’t be too nitpicky and overbearing. It’s not exacty ideal to “lord” it over her on how to do things when she’s the one who is supposed to be in control – lol!
Tell her why you like orgasm denial. Many men say things such as loving the chase and the courtship phase of a relationship. Certainly being denied their orgasm is part of that. Proving themselves and how much self control they have is another part of orgasm denial. Placing themselves under the control of the woman they love is another. Whatever the reason you’re into orgasm denial, let your novice Domme know
Communication is always the key. Just because orgasm denial may seem more benign than other bdsm activities, it’s not. The bravery that an orgasm denied fan must endure is every bit as impressive as a painslut’s.
Posted In: Femdom, Orgasm denial
Orgasm Denial, Part 1
Posted On: September 28, 2009 at 3:45 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
For many men who want to introduce their significant others to the FemDomme lifestyle, a good place to start is orgasm denial. That’s because many women get immediately turned off at the thought of BDSM; they conjur up images of whips and chains. While that may be the case for some activities for D/s couples and playmates, it doesn’t have to be the norm.
At any rate, I feel orgasm denial is something to introduce to a novice Domme in the making. Unfortunately, many a woman feels that she’s not satisfying her mate if he doesn’t cum, so it might take awhile for her to realize that she really should deny him. After all, that’s what orgasm denial is all about – lol!
I remember the first time I did orgasm denial. It was during orgasm denial phone sex, and after doing a lot of cockteasing, the man was begging me for permission to release. He sounded so sincere, and he really sounded like he was about ready to cry. So I gave in. Wrong move! The disappointment in his voice was quite evident. He did cum, but boy, was he ever disappointed. He never called again. Gee…I wonder why – lol!
True, orgasm denial play doesn’t mean never cumming, but for many orgasm denied fans who want to have a play session, they don’t want to cum during that time. Eventually, but not then. At that particular time, they want the cock teasing and the slow build up in their balls. They want that familiar blue balled, heavy ache of being orgasm denied.
Posted In: Femdom, Orgasm denial
These Boots are Made for Walking: Trampling
Posted On: September 9, 2009 at 3:36 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
I remember being very young and hearing Nancy Sinatra sing:
“These boots are made for walking
And that’s just what they’ll do
One of these days these boots are gonna walk all over you….”
The gist of the song isn’t about bdsm and trampling, but I always delighted in the chorus.
Shortly after starting my bdsm journey, I met up with someone who was in to trampling. What little I had read about it sounded so dangerous. Yikes! Stiletto heels – with a Domme’s full weight on them – piercing down into a sub’s flesh? I’m a big sadist, but I don’t want to irreparably damange my toys!
I told him my reservations about trampling, and he described some of the safety protocol that goes into bdsm trampling. Ah…light bulb went off in my head, and I immediately wanted to try trampling!
We went to a shoe store to buy the right kind of boots and then we went back to my place to break them in, so to speak. It was pretty cool, and I enjoyed my first time trampling. All the while he was prone and I was carefully walking over him, I was singing Nancy Sinatra’s chorus and giggling.
A Lazy Afternoon of Foot Worship
Posted On: September 7, 2009 at 3:35 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
I recently enjoyed a lazy afternoon with a sub who enjoys foot worship. So, of course, I couldn’t pass an opportunity up like that. It’s not often he has some free time.
He spent most of the afternoon down at my feet – rubbing and massaging them, kissing them, licking them, and sucking on my toes. Foot worship is a wonderful thing for a Domme/Dom. To me, it’s so relaxing, yet erotic and a turn on at the same time. It’s also a time for a sub to show how worshipful he or she is – willing to “make love” to a foot!
At other times, foot worship can be humiliating. There’s nothing like smearing icky stuff all over a sub’s face with feet – lol! Or, if a domnant has dirty feet, it’s such a rush to see a sub humiliate him or herself by cleaning all that dirt or mud off the feet. (At least the sub better hope that’s dirt or mud – lol)!
Foot worship can also entail some edgier bdsm elements, like a dominant using his or her feet to slap a submissive’s face, or using the feet to smother the sub.
Fun times foot worship is!
Posted In: Femdom, Foot Worship
Orgasm Denial is Such a Rush
Posted On: August 29, 2009 at 6:42 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
Putting my submissives through orgasm denial is such a rush! Nothing controls a submissive more thoroughly than orgasm denial.
Sometimes an orgasm denied submissive can get pretty edgy and desperate. Their emotions are all over the place, having to deny themselves for their dominant. During those times, I try to be around to help them through those intensely tough spots where they don’t think they can hold out any longer. Some can’t, and it’s a wise dominant who knows when those times are and to let them cum – but after a particularly intense cock tease. Some can hold out longer; they just don’t know it yet. That’s when a dominant has to see that and to guide the orgasm denied submissive through that psychologically and physically tough spot.
So, you see, orgasm denial can be such a rush for a dominant. Not only is she controlling a submissive’s orgasms, she’s also controlling his emotional and psychological states. Coolio!
Posted In: Femdom, Orgasm denial
Foot Worship
Posted On: August 6, 2009 at 4:22 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
I dearly love having my feet worshipped. Mmmm, it feels so exquisite feeling a foot worship sub’s tongue twirling around each of my toes. It tickles and it feels relaxing at the same time. I think I could fall asleep during a good foot massage and foot licking. Toe sucking feels particularly enjoyable!
Sometimes I like to combine foot worship with food play. I do this by squishing my toes into something gooey – like a jelly donut – and having my foot fetishist clean off all that jelly. Mmmm, it feels so good. It’s also funny, too, seeing jelly all over my sub’s face. If I’m in a particularly impish mood, I’ll squish my toes into something that doesn’t taste too good – like a jelly donut mixed with vinegar or something the sub hates to eat – lol!
Posted In: Femdom, Foot Worship
Cock and Ball Torture = Yum!
Posted On: July 20, 2009 at 8:20 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
Cock and ball torture – aka cbt – is so yummy delicious! I love immobilizing my submissives and then torturing their family jewels. And there are so many things to torture them with! Hot wax, ice, flogger, stiletto heels, vampire gloves, clothespins, ball weights, salt, rubbing alcohol, sandpaper, bengay or icy hot…I could go on and on.
One of of my favorite cbt devices is a wartenburg wheel. Those little pricks to prick my submissive’s prick are such diabolical fun! I laugh in absolute delight when I change the pressure on that wheel. When I give light pressure, it almost tickles, but there’s always that threat that I’ll make my pressure heavier. The squirms my heavy hand gets with the wartenberg wheel makes me laugh. Ahhhh…the fun of cock and ball torture!
BDSM Faceslapping
Posted On: July 18, 2009 at 8:20 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
BDSM face slapping is so hot! It really turns me on to see videos of FemDommes face slapping their submissives, but it turns me on even more to be the one doing the face slapping! I’ll never forget the first time I did bdsm faceslapping. I loved the absolute control I had over my slave, who was kneeling before me with his hands tied behind his back. I loved toying with him – pretending like I was going to slap his face, and then I didn’t. I laughed whenever he flinched and there was no face slap to accompany that hand motion – lol!
I got so into the bdsm faceslapping I was doing that I started using both my hands. I wasn’t sure if I could do it as well with my left hand, since I’m right handed, but…as they say…practice makes perfect – lol! And a willing submissive was a wonderful thing to perfect my bdsm face slapping talent!
Posted In: face slapping, Femdom
Orgasm Denial
Posted On: July 10, 2009 at 3:47 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
So do you like orgasm denial? Do you crave being denied an orgasm by a firm Dominatrix? Or should I call her a Masturbatrix? That divine Domme that tells you how to stroke and then, when you’re about ready to cum, she tells you “Hands off!” LOL! I love that moment – that moment when my orgasm denied sub thinks I’m going to let him cum, and then I don’t. LOL!
The longest an orgasm denial sub of mine has gone without cumming has been four months! I must say, that’s pretty damned impressive! But even if you’re new to orgasm denial and can’t hold off that long, that’s fine. As long as you stretch and hold out as long as you can, then that’s great! I’m an understanding Masturbatrix and know that some men just can’t hold off that long; their limit might be four days, not four weeks. What joy I get is in the control I have over my orgasm denial strokers, not necessarily the length of time.
Holding you by the balls,
Countess~
Posted In: Femdom, Orgasm denial
FemDomme Foot Worship
Posted On: July 6, 2009 at 2:28 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
I love foot worship; that is, when it’s being done to my tootsies! I’ve had foot fetishists who range from wanting to offer me foot worship to those who are into being humiliated by my feet.
My feet are indeed worthy of foot worship. They’re a petite size 6 (US) with sexy, high arches. None of my toes are out of proportion with the others. I have to admit I like looking at my feet. When I wake up in the morning, I do some stretches. One of my stretches entails my putting my legs straight up. Of course, then I have a great look at my toes and feet, and they’re positively yummy – lol! I can see why my foot worshipping foot fetishists love craddling them, massaging them, gazing at them, and kissing them.
For my subs who are into foot fetish humiliation, the beauty of my feet add to their humiliation. To have two things so beautiful treating them with such disdain adds to their agony – lol! I love smooshing jelly between my toes and then smearing my feet across my sub’s face. Then there’s also foot slapping, which is quite fun! It’s a little tricky, but it’s well worth the effort. The look of shock on a sub’s face when he’s foot slapped is hilarious!!
Posted In: Femdom, Foot Worship, Tied Cock
FemDomme Face Slapping
Posted On: July 3, 2009 at 6:18 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
I love FemDomme face slapping. It’s fun watching Femdomme videos of faceslapping, but I have to admit I love doing it more myself! I have a few submissives who enjoy my face slapping them. There’s something extra humiliating about face slapping. First of all, getting in someone’s face is oftentimes bordering on a cultural taboo. And then to touch that person’s face…crossing another line. And THEN to administer pain…whoa! A biggie line that is crossed!
In the context of bdsm play, FemDomme face slapping isn’t crossing any lines since it’s all consensual; however, there’s something archetypal about a face slap that no matter how consensual it is, it’s still a jolt deep down inside.
Do you like FemDomme face slapping? I bet a lot of you do!
Posted In: face slapping, Femdom
