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Erotic Humiliation in Person
Posted On: October 29, 2009 at 6:30 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
My previous entry discussed erotic humiliation phone sex, which is a helluva lot of fun. But erotic humiliation in person is just as fun, perhaps even more so, with the right humiliation slut. Some of the erotic humiliation things I’ve done to subs include: human pet play, piss play, cumming in humiliating ways, and getting dirty.
One of the funniest things I’ve ever done – and it was in public and no one else knew except the humiliation slut and me – involved piss play. The thing is, I had my period at the time as well – lol! I threw a dinner party at my home, with most of the guests being vanilla people, so if I was going to do any erotic humiliation, I’d have to be discreet. Well, my sub did something that ticked me off, so I went into the bathroom, pissed into a glass goblet, and gave it to him. It was, of course, an unusual mixture of yellow and burgundy. I’m sure some people, if they noticed, may have wondered what kind of “wine” I was serving. Thank goodness no one asked for a sample – haha!
At any rate, I whispered into my erotic humiliation slut’s ear what it was. Since he was in front of people, he couldn’t protest. So down the hatch it went. LOL! He visibly blanched, and I secretly laughed. It was a hoot!
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Erotic Humiliation Phone Sex
Posted On: October 23, 2009 at 12:31 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
I’ve done a lot of fun and funny things to humiliation sluts who’ve called me for erotic humiliation phone sex. Some have taken their cell phones with them while talking to me on the phone. Oftentimes, these little excursions take the shape of them going into a lingerie store and purchasing something for themselves. Of course, they’re to tell the saleswoman that the panties, bra, stockings, etc., are for them. There have been times that I’ve talked to the saleswomen and have told them that the lingerie purchase is for the man standing in front of them – lol! Other times, I’ve had my callers purchase two of each item they want – one in my size and one in theirs. Obviously, the saleswoman would know the larger size was for the man – lolol!
Other times I’ve had erotic humiliation phone sex callers go to the makeup counter at a drug store or a department store. As in the lingerie store experience, I’ve talked to the clerks and told them to help the caller pick out some makeup for him to wear. Most of the clerks have been good sports, though you can sometimes tell from their tone of voice that they’re very disapproving of the sissy boy in front of them – lol!
I’ve had a few callers whom I’ve made ask a sales clerk where the tampons are and what tampons they recommend for someone who has never used them before. One caller was even so bold as to tell the clerk the tampons were for him. I giggled cuz I thought no way would the guy say that, but he did!!!! ROFLMAOOOOOOOO! Too frigging funny!
See, erotic humiliation is so much fun!!!!!!
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The Thrill of Erotic Humiliation from a Domme’s Perspective
Posted On: October 15, 2009 at 1:48 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
I thought I’d write about the thrill of erotic humiliation from a domme’s perspective. Most people who read this blog are submissives, so they may wonder what it’s like for a dominant to put her/his sub through erotic humiliation.
For me, it’s a giggle – sometimes a HUGE giggle, followed by wild guffaws. I mean, really, just think about it! When you’re able to convince, seduce, “make,” (or whatever word you’d like to use) a person do something erotically humiliating to them, the look on their faces and what they’re actually doing can literally be rolling on the floor laughing your ass off funny! And who doesn’t want a good laugh, especially nowadays!
Mixed in with the opportunity of having a great laugh is the control issue for me. The rush of control I have over subs as I put them through erotic humiliation is quite heady. It’s one thing to have a sub undergo some sort of physical pain (as in corporal punishment) or emotional hardship (as in orgasm denial). But with erotic humiliation, the humiliation slut goes through huge embarassment, and it has more of a lasting effect. They know that they’re literally being an amusement for their dominants, and not in a stand-up comic, on purpose, kind of way. Oftentimes, a painslut’s reactions are just as funny as the erotically humiliating act or acts they have to perform.
As I said, erotic humiliation is much more memorable than physical pain or hardship. Think back to, for instance, hitting your finger with a hammer. Can you really recreate that pain? Not likely. With physical hardship, it might be a little easier to remember – like recalling how frustrated you were during a period of intense orgasm denial for your dominant. However, you probably can’t recreate the immediate physical sensations in your balls and cock right this minute, can you? (Unless you’re cheating, and you’re doing another intense orgasm denial – lol)!
But with erotic humiliation – or with any kind of embarassing moments in your past – you can immediately recall how humiliated you felt. In fact, your face might even blush a bit at the thought, and you might figet nervously, as all those uncomfortable feelings come rushing back.
Erotic humiliation is intense and leaves an indelible imprint on a sub’s psyche. And that’s why it’s a total rush of control for a dominant, and also a laugh riot!
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Orgasm Denial, Part 3
Posted On: October 6, 2009 at 6:19 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
As I alluded to in the previous post, the bravery exhibited by those into orgasm denial can be every bit as impressive as a pain slut’s. In fact, in most cases, the amount of bravery and self control is far more for an orgasm denied fan. That’s because, for a painslut, the bulk of the pain ends when the session ends. This isn’t the case for the tease and denial submissive.
Going through orgasm denial entails mental, emotional, and physical pain and/or discomfort. For those not having experienced orgasm denial, the physical discomfort is obvious, and blue balls are something they disdain and try to avoid at all costs. For the tease and denial fan, being denied – while uncomfortable – is erotic, so the “pain” is manageable. The emotional and mental pain is what builds up over hours or days, and that’s when a Domme needs to be around to help her sub through the anguish.
The subs whom I’ve denied for at least a few days frequently get very emotional. Some experience anguish, extreme frustration and stress, and desperation. Going through such mental and emotional sensations are harder than a painslut’s physical sensations because it’s only skin deep. (Unless, of course, the sub is being punished for some transaction. Then again, I don’t believe that a Dominant should EVER punish a sub when s/he is angry).
At any rate, those who are in to orgasm denial are often far braver than those who are in to heavy corporal punishment. My hat is off to those tease and denial fans who push themselves past their limits every time they’re going through a denial phase.
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