Orgasm Denial is Such a Rush

Posted On: August 29, 2009 at 6:42 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)

Putting my submissives through orgasm denial is such a rush!  Nothing controls a submissive more thoroughly than orgasm denial.

Sometimes an orgasm denied submissive can get pretty edgy and desperate.  Their emotions are all over the place, having to deny themselves for their dominant.  During those times, I try to be around to help them through those intensely tough spots where they don’t think they can hold out any longer.  Some can’t, and it’s a wise dominant who knows when those times are and to let them cum – but after a particularly intense cock tease.  Some can hold out longer; they just don’t know it yet.  That’s when a dominant has to see that and to guide the orgasm denied submissive through that psychologically and physically tough spot.

So, you see, orgasm denial can be such a rush for a dominant.  Not only is she controlling a submissive’s orgasms, she’s also controlling his emotional and psychological states.  Coolio!

Posted In: Femdom, Orgasm denial

Erotic Humiliation Makes Me Laugh

Posted On: August 27, 2009 at 6:42 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)

Erotic humiliation makes me laugh every time I do it on a submissive.  I always find it so hiliarious to humiliate the hell out of a humiliation slut!  Erotic humiliation can take place in private or in public.  If I do public humiliation, then I make sure no children are around.  I also make sure I don’t embarrass anyone who isn’t consenting to such a scene.  Only the humiliation slut gets embarrassed!

Thus, erotic public humiliation can be private – like a private joke – even though it’s out in public.  For instance, putting my piss or my humiliation slut’s spunk in his wine glass or on his salad while in a restaurant.  Or having a remote control vibrating butt plug in the submissive’s ass and ramdomly pressing it – lol!  That’s always great for incredible reactions.  LOLOL!

What erotic humiliation things have your dominants done to you?

Posted In: Humiliation

Bondage – What’s Your Pleasure?

Posted On: August 22, 2009 at 6:17 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)

Regarding bondage – what’s your pleasure?  I would love to know how all of you readers view bondage.  Do you like it?  Why?  How often to you get into bondage?  What kind of bondage do you like?

If you’re dominant, what kind of bondage do you do on your submissives?  Shibari, rope, leather, metal, etc?  How often do you get to administer bondage?

I’d love to read your thoughts on bondage.  Call me a voyeur!

Posted In: Bondage, sadomasochism

Light Bondage – the Tables are Turned

Posted On: August 20, 2009 at 6:12 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)

I have to admit I was in bondage once.  I had a lover whom I let blindfold me and tie my wrists above my head.  Well, they were sort of tied – lol.  Even before I knew I was a dominant, I didn’t care to be in bondage.  I don’t know why I let him put me in bondage – perhaps it was the curiosity factor.  Maybe it was cuz he was such a great pussy licker.  (The best I’ve ever had, actually).  Anyway, I told him the only way I would allow him to tie me up is if the rope bondage was very light on my wrists.  He agreed.

I could easily just spread my wrists apart, and the rope would be off, but I pretended I was in bondage.  Nope, I didn’t like it.  I did like being blindfolded somewhat, but not all that much.

Anyway, that was my first and only experience with me in bondage.  I don’t plan on ever doing it again.  Blech!

Posted In: Blindfolded, Bondage

The First Time I Read About Bondage

Posted On: August 18, 2009 at 6:05 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)

The first time I read about bondage or anything bondage related was in high school.  I read a book called “Punish Me with Kisses.”  It was so bizarre but fun and very naughty to read.  I didn’t in any way relate with the submissive in the book, but I sure was curious about the dominant.

Even though I was very shy in high school (I was a late bloomer) I was not the least bit ashamed of anyone seeing me reading a bondage book.  In fact, we didn’t have lockers at that high school, and all our books were placed on desks.  I proudly put my bondage book on the top of my book stack – lol!  I should’ve known I would have a future filled with bondage, huh?

Posted In: Bondage, sadomasochism, Uncategorized

CBT: The Joys of Cock and Ball Torture

Posted On: August 16, 2009 at 6:00 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)

There once was a Goddess named Countess, who loved to torture weenies and balls through cbt.  The moans, gasps, and cries of the painsluts were music to her ears.  The grimaces and tears were beauty to her eyes.

There once was a submissive named pain slave, who loved cbt.  He willingly gave up his family jewels to Countess to be tortured at her whim.  Ah, he was quite happy in all the exquisite pain he bore for her through cbt.

Posted In: CBT, sadomasochism

Forced Cock Sucking – Female Style

Posted On: August 14, 2009 at 5:54 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)

While I play with mostly male submissives, I do like female submissives being forced into cock sucking.  It’s particularly wicked and delightful if they’re lesbians – lol!  Oh, the horrors, the horrors!

But, as any good Mistress and submissive know, the total power exchange is quite evident in forced cock sucking of a submissive who normally wouldn’t want to suck cock.  Of course, a Dominant should never cross the hard boundaries of a submissive, but if forced cock sucking isn’t on that list, then it’s fair game.

I also enjoy forced cock sucking when the submissive is a heterosexual female.  It can still be quite humiliating, especially if the guy is very unattractive, or if the handsome stud just fucks the hell out of her pie hole.  She’s soon cock gagging and deep throating, even if those weren’t her intention.

Forced cock sucking…try it with your submissives if it isn’t one of their hard boundaries!

Posted In: Forced Cock Sucking, Humiliation

Forced Cock Sucking

Posted On: August 12, 2009 at 5:49 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)

Ah, my little bitch boys love forced cock sucking.  Of course, they protest at first, professing their manliness and how they would never do such a thing.  On and on they go.  I usually shut them up with a “Me thinks thou doest protest too much.”  They blush crimson.  The funny thing is, all the while we’re talking about forced cock sucking, they have quite the erection.  As I always say, a cock is a great lie detector.  And that cock is saying “Ooooh, yes…forced cocksucking.  Yes, please…me next!”  LOL!

Have any of you been forced into cock sucking by your Mistress?  How did you feel about it?  I imagine you were scared at first, but then you got so aroused seeing how turned on your Mistress was, that you began to tolerate it, perhaps even enjoy it.  Indeed, forced cock sucking is the epitome of total power exchange for a heterosexual male submissive.

Posted In: Forced Cock Sucking, Humiliation

Human Pet Play: Being Caged

Posted On: August 10, 2009 at 5:41 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)

One of the fun things about human pet play is for the sub to be caged.  If you’re going to do human pet play, you might as well pull out all the stops, if possible.  Granted, it costs money to purchase all your bdsm props to live out the fantasies you have, but if you can, by all means do!  Having props and other bdsm gear helps make the play session all the more enjoyable.

When I engage in human pet play, I of course like to collar and leash my “doggie.”  I also like to lead him around and have him eat and drink out of a dog bowl.  Sometimes, if I’m in a particularly impish mood, I’ll take him outside where he has to piss like a dog – leg up and all.  That’s so funny!  While my backyard is relatively private, you just never know who may peek around the bushes.

Sometimes I can’t be bothered with my little “doggie,” so I cage him.  Bdsm cages are a great part of human pet play.  I leave my human pet in there alone, anywhere from a couple minutes to several minutes.  I’m always within ear shot, of course.  I believe in practicing safe and sane bdsm.

Being caged, for my human pets, is oftentimes a surreal experience for them.  They feel the humiliation and the dehumanization, but they also get into subspace.  They feel, in a submissive way, of being cared for and loved.  What a good doggie!

Posted In: Caged, Human Pet Play

Bondage: All Tied Up and No Place to Go

Posted On: August 8, 2009 at 5:41 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)

Bondage is hot, hot, HOT!  Well, from my perspective, bondage on a submissive – lol!  I couldn’t stand being in bondage myself.  *shudder*

Anyway, it’s so sexy seeing a submissive all tied up, especially if I’ve left him at my feet, or if I’ve bound him in some humiliating position.  Sometimes I put a ball gag in my sub’s mouth and sometimes not.  Sometimes I put a blindfold on him, and sometimes not.  It just depends upon my mood.

One of the more extreme forms of bondage is the straight jacket.  Those are extra HOT to me.  I like it when my subs occasionally struggle.  The look in their eyes and the expression on their faces shows that they are indeed all tied up or restrained and they have no place to go – lol!  Ah, they’re at my mercy, so they better behave.  Usually they do…

Posted In: Blindfolded, Bondage

Foot Worship

Posted On: August 6, 2009 at 4:22 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)

I dearly love having my feet worshipped.  Mmmm, it feels so exquisite feeling a foot worship sub’s tongue twirling around each of my toes.  It tickles and it feels relaxing at the same time.  I think I could fall asleep during a good foot massage and foot licking.  Toe sucking feels particularly enjoyable!

Sometimes I like to combine foot worship with food play.  I do this by squishing my toes into something gooey – like a jelly donut – and having my foot fetishist clean off all that jelly.  Mmmm, it feels so good.  It’s also funny, too, seeing jelly all over my sub’s face.  If I’m in a particularly impish mood, I’ll squish my toes into something that doesn’t taste too good – like a jelly donut mixed with vinegar or something the sub hates to eat – lol!

Posted In: Femdom, Foot Worship

Pretty Stripes by Caning

Posted On: August 4, 2009 at 7:16 pm By: Countess Comments: (one)

So many pretty stripes are caused by a good caning session.  I enjoy caning my painslut submissives for a couple different reasons.  One of them is, as you can surmise, the pretty marks that are made when I cane a sub.  It’s really fascinating to me to see the marks rise very quickly on that vulnerable ass.  Then, as other marks are made, those stripes start changing colors.  Oooooh, pretty!  Sometimes I have to stop and admire the stripes I make on a caned ass!  Plus, those stripes remain for days, which is super cool!

Another thing I love about caning a willing submissive is the pain that I’m causing.  It gives me such a rush knowing that I’m taking him to subspace, where he can get a rush and go to a place within himself that he doesn’t get to go to in his usual life.  I guess it’s kind of like FemDomme space – lol!

Posted In: Caned, sadomasochism

Got You by the Hook: Anal Hook

Posted On: August 1, 2009 at 12:21 pm By: Countess Comments: (one)

So, how many of you have experiencecd an anal hook during bdsm play?  Not many submissives have, although I think it’s one of the most intimate bondage experiences they could have.  As with breath play, it takes a special kind of bond between the dominant and the submissive.  To have a hook in such an intimate and sensitive area…ouch!  And then to be in bondage with the anal hook…double OUCH!  Because if the submissive moves, that hook ain’t going anywhere, so it’s going to be putting a hurting on that sensitive little asshole of the submissive!  Obviously, it would behoove the submissive to not move…to be as still as his or her dominant wishes!

I’m sure many of you have seen photos or videos of dominants using anal hooks on submissives.  Did it make you cringe?  Did it make you aroused?  Maybe even both!

Posted In: Anal Hook, Breath Play

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