Posted On: June 28, 2009 at 7:21 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
I love using food as a means of erotic humiliation. There are so many fun things a Dominant can do with food to humiliate a submissive.
For instance, going to a restaurant along with a container full of spunk. Then pouring said spunk onto subbie’s food and watching him eat it all up. Or me going to the restroom with a wine glass and coming back with it filled with my piss for the sub to drink all up. Now that’s a fun one!
I also like mixing up horrid concoctions for my subs to eat. These concoctions usually include meat gristle, vinegar, pickle juice, scrambled egg, and several of the kinds of food the sub hates. Sometimes I like to top the “soup” off with some of my piss. And if I’m on my period, all the better! Then I put the yukky stuff in a bowl on the floor for subbie to eat all up.
Erotic humiliation with food can be so much fun!!!!!!!!
Posted On: June 27, 2009 at 6:42 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
I recently sessioned with a female submissive. She has very big breasts, so the first thing I thought was breast bondage. Since her boobs were so generous in size, I was able to wind a lot of rope around them and tied the rope off so prettily in her cleavage. I also put nipple clamps on her nipples and then hung weights on them. She was getting pretty wet at that point.
After awhile, I removed the nipple clamps, but still kept her in breast bondage. I slapped her breasts around a bit and then removed her breast bondage. You always have to be careful about cutting off circulation when using rope bondage – or really any kind of bondage.
Since her big breasts were free, now that they were out of breast bondage, I was able to slap them around a lot. It made me giggle seeing them flap around so much! She was wincing in pain and moaning in ecstasy the whole time. I can’t wait to play with her again. She was quite the painslut!
Posted On: June 24, 2009 at 5:43 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
One of my friends is getting in touch with her inner dominatrix. I always knew she had it in her – lol! She wants to start out slowly with her husband, so I suggested orgasm denial. Orgasm denial is very much a sensual domination play, although it can go quite hardcore. But…we’re dealing with sensual domination orgasm denial here, so I gave her a few tips.
One of the most delightful things about orgasm denial is to tie up your partner so that s/he cannot touch their genitals. Then you stimulate them til they’re just about ready to cum. (Obviously they have to be on the honor system and let you know when they’re about to orgasm). This is the time when you can really tease and torment them by making them beg for your permission to cum! I LOVE that! It’s so sexy seeing someone so vulnerable and at your mercy asking for pleasure – pleasure that they can normally take themselves. Will you give it, or won’t you? It’s entirely up to you!
Posted On: June 20, 2009 at 3:13 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
One of the erotic humiliation things I love, love, LOVE to do is small penis humiliation. When else can I roll on the floor, laughing out loud during bdsm play!? Oh sure, during other erotic humiliation play I can have a real belly laugh, but there’s just something about small penis humiliation. I think it adds an extra humiliation to men because I’m literally attacking their manhood – what little there is – lol!
What makes me laugh even more – besides looking at the diminutive size – is how that lil pecker gets harder when I laugh and make fun of it. Of course, it never gets long enough to satisfy any woman. No, it just looks like a baby turtle poking its head out of its shell, trying to stretch to look formidable. Uh, give it up, penis-challenged guys. You’re only good for cuckolding, sissification, and small penis humiliation.
Posted On: June 17, 2009 at 7:45 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
It’s probably well known that a submissive being blindfolded heightens his or her senses. Any kind of touch you do to your sub seems even more so, be it pleasure or pain. Since bdsm often deals with heightened physical sensations, being blindfolded adds an extra kick to it.
Being blindfolded also adds to the suspense of what the dominant is going to do next, which makes a submissive feel so much more vulnerable. Mmmm, it’s so delicious when I have a submissive in such a vulnerable state. I could even walk around in my heels, pausing, and the submissive is even more anticipating what I’m about to do next. The power of the mind and the imagination is a wonderful tool to use in bdsm, and being blindfolded draws those two out.
Posted On: June 13, 2009 at 2:44 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
Gagged and hogtied. Those were the first two things I ever did to my first submissive. I was completely new at it, of course, but he was patient and showed me the ropes, so to speak. I must say, I thoroughly enjoyed myself and loved looking at him so helpless. I realized I could’ve done anything to him at that point, and that’s when I experienced my first “high” as a Domme. To have so much control over someone who trusts you so much is quite intoxicating. Because of that, I wanted to experience bdsm play again and again.
Luckily my first sub knew of several other willing men and women who wanted to help train the new Domme. They were all very respectful and showed me so many things. I’m very grateful that I’m still in touch with all of them.
And all of them, by the way, got to be hogtied by Moi – lol!
Posted On: June 12, 2009 at 6:27 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
Yes, Countess does tit torture – only not on myself, of course! Duh!
Even though I refer to my submissives as male, I have dominated several females. The majority are males, though. I’d say the percentage is 75% males and 25% females.
Anyhoo, I love doing tit torture of my female submissives. I don’t really have a preference as to big breasts or tiny tits; they both have their funsies! With big breasts, I have more flesh to torture, so of course, that’s delightfully fun. Big breasts are fun to slap around, too. With tiny breasts, you can’t do as much breast slapping, but they have their own merits. I particularly enjoy humiliating small breasted women for their lack of mammaries. This makes putting nipple clamps with weights on them all the more fun – under the guise of trying to make their breasts bigger – lol! Of course it doesn’t work, which gives further ammunition to the erotic humiliation!
Posted On: June 10, 2009 at 6:43 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
One of my favorite bdsm implements of torture are Vampire Gloves. They are these delightful black leather gloves with a special surprise on the inside: dozens of tiny pointy metal tacks that line the fingers. Oh, how sadistically fun it is to stroke a submissive’s cock with such gloves on – lol! One of my favorite cbt activities is to tie my sub up spread eagle or have him tightly bound like a mummy. Of course, his cock is exposed and at my mercy. I then do a long, slow tease with soft and silky gloves, switching to those diabolical Vampire Gloves whenever I feel like it.
And I feel like it quite often – lol! I totally get a rush when I see my masochistic sub squirm when I put those Vampire Gloves on. The look in his eyes – priceless! And then when I start to wank…oh my! Whimper city! Haha! I LOVE IT!
Vampire Gloves make such a perfect cbt toy because I can vary my pressure, giving my sub a slight tickling to a downright painful experience. I’m rather partial to the “downright painful experience” for my subs; after all, it is cock and ball torture!
Keeping a tight grip…
Posted On: June 7, 2009 at 6:46 am By: Countess Comments: (zero)
To ball gag or not to ball gag – that is the question. I think it all comes down to what you like to do to your submissive and what kind of mood you’re in at the time. Personally, I always have a ball gag around just in case I want to use it. When I want to dehumanize my sub and treat him like a side of beef, I ball gag him. Ball gags instantly humiliate a sub, showing them that they aren’t in charge. It also shows them that whatever they may have to say is so inconsequential that their Dominant doesn’t even want to hear a single syllable – lol!
Ball gags are also humiliating in another way: the sub tends to drool. Again, this goes with the dehumanization; it makes them seem like a drooling dumb beast!
But sometimes I like to hear my sub moan, whimper, and beg. Sure, he can moan and whine a bit through a ball gag, but it comes out more clearly when there’s no gag. Plus, he sure as hell can’t beg with a ball gag in his mouth.
So you see, it just all depends upon what the Dominant wants for that particular bdsm session.
Open wide for me,
Posted On: June 5, 2009 at 6:26 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
Candle wax play is hot! (Oops, pardon the pun). To me, it’s more sensuous than other types of bdsm play. Perhaps that’s because it involves candles, and candles give off a romantic and sensuous air.
When I engage in candle wax play, I often have several lighted candles around. The candles I specifically use for the candle wax play are non-scented and non-colored, so as to not cause unnecessary skin irritation from fragrances or dyes. First, I have my lucky submissive give me wonderful orgasms with his tongue. Then I tied him to my four poster bed and slowly give him a hand job. Just as he’s about ready to explode, I let that hot wax drip on his cock and balls. Talk about ruining the moment – lol! I’m such a cock tease!
At any rate, if you’re going to engage in candle wax play, make sure you research all the safety tips for it – as with any bdsm play.
Posted On: June 4, 2009 at 6:06 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
How many of you have been inside a bdsm dungeon? I was a lifestyle domme before I stepped foot into a bdsm dungeon for the first time. I have to admit my mouth drooled! The atmosphere created by the dark colors and the lovely “torture” devices/furniture was quite intoxicating.
The spanking bench got the most workout, with my slave tied to it. He wasn’t able to move, while his ass was exposed and oh so vulnerable to my flogging, caning, and whipping. I was on a total high until my painslut slave said his safe word. While I wanted to continue, I honored his safe word and stopped. I had him smell my pussy through my tight pants as he caught his breath. What an aroma to breathe in while a submissive catches his breath, huh?!
Posted On: June 3, 2009 at 6:59 pm By: Countess Comments: (zero)
One of my favorite things to do with a submissive is human pet play. I like dehumanizing my subs, treating them like the dogs, ponies, or piggies that they are. When I treat them like dogs, I collar and leash them. Then I have them amuse me with doing typical dog tricks, like roll over, fetch, and beg. I just love the begging part – lol! Although fetch is pretty hilarious – repetitiously throwing something like an old shoe. My human pets soon learn there’s absolutely no point to my fetch game except to make them look ridiculous – lol.
Then of course there’s the pony play, but I have to admit treating my subs like piggies is totally delightful. Seeing them root around with their “snouts” in my left over food – in a trough – is priceless! I sometimes add my piss into the slop I feed them, which gives them dessert – lol!
Human pet play is a great combination of humiliation and dehumanization. Oh, and it’s also great comedy to a Mistress!
Sit up and beg for me, boys,